ThinkUKnow Parent Session
It was great that parents were able to attend our Online ThinkUKnow Session last Tuesday evening. This provided important information in relation to keeping your children safe in the online environment and supports available when needed. The important key message from the session was about your reaction if your child inadvertently became a target of a predator online as well as signs to look out for that may indicate this has happened. The message is to positively support your child remembering that they are a victim and need support and assistance.
Aim to always have conversations with your child ensuring that they feel comfortable talking to you about things they are uncertain about, or things people have said to them online.
Were you aware that the average age of an online gamer is 36, and there is an even male/female 50/50 split of online gamers.
I have included some key messages for students about Cyber Safety, from the sessions they have or will be attending, that you should be aware of for your child and even yourself:
Staying Safe ~
- Usernames: Use a username that does not overshare personal information about yourself, i.e. using your real name and birthyear, e.g. BarneyRubble2010 gives people your name and age. Also don’t include your actual photo as your profile picture.
- Passwords: Make sure you use a strong password – or better still a passphrase, e.g. richmond is a weak password, whereas RichmondPremiers2020 is a passphrase and much stronger. Students should never share their password with anyone (except their parents if required).
- Keep accounts private so only people you trust can access them.
- Do not chat to people you don’t know online, ask yourself, “Would mum or dad be happy with me talking to this person?” This includes in online games. If someone keeps trying to chat with you, know how to block them. Never reveal personal information about yourself in online games.
- Shared content is there forever. Always think before you send, think about who it is getting sent to: ALWAYS ask yourself: Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
- Photos: be careful with photos shared online. What do they reveal about you: School logo (provides location and indication of age)? Name of park where you are playing? Remember to never share photos of other people online unless you have their permission to do so, also their permission to tag them.
- Reminder popularity is not about having the most friends. Trying to have lots of friends means you probably accept requests from unknown people. Many people make fake profiles pretending to be someone they are not using fake images. A question to ask – Do you know all of your online friends? Can you justify to your parents who they are and why they are your friends? Is your online friend, Christiano Ronaldo, really that person?
- If an unknown person online offers you a gift the answer has to be NO. The person then needs to be reported and blocked from your account. NEVER agree to meet in real life.
Cyberbullying ~
- The important message is that if your parents have provided you with a device then you are accountable for what you do with it and you own the consequences.
- Cyberbullying (along with any type of bullying) is upsetting and harmful and can have long term effects on people. It is never okay even if you think you are joking or if someone else did it top you first.
- BE an UPSTANDER. Don’t become a part of unkind online activity.
- If anything happens online that causes you to be upset, talk to someone. Your parents are a great place to start. Your teacher can help, the police can help so can Kids’ Helpline.
It was interesting to note the marketing that goes on behind the games that children play online. We have noticed that there are a number of toys coming into school, known as ‘Rainbow Friends’. I must admit, I did not know anything about these until our session with Kellie. These are from a game that is designed for students much older than primary aged students. As such, some students find them to be scary. As with all toys, it is advisable to keep toys at home that are treasured by students so that they don’t go missing, get lost or broken.
If you are online always be respectful: Think KIND!